what is love?
There are so many definitions of love.Different people view it in different ways.
Shakespeare said,” love is blind and lovers cannot see.”
Aristotle said,”love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
Furthermore, songwriters have given more than a million definitions of love.All in all,love is a beautiful feeling that makes life more colourful.However, when you try to understand love more deeply,it will leave you confused cuz I believe love is an incomprehensible feeling that can only be understood by those TRULY in love.
And what is this TRUE love?
Is it grabbing her waist, kissing and enjoying all that is enjoyed by married people even before getting married? Or talking through phone the whole night? NO! That is certainly lust,desire and physical attraction exaggerated by the devil.True love is respecting each other and keeping everything halal until the appropriate time.
It is so sad seeing young girls and boys roaming around doing inexplicable things claiming it is love.As far as I am concerned, all these are happening because of the wrong impression about love we get by watching love story movies and the likes.
Open your eyes my dear sisters and stop being taken for granted.Do not allow to be used as door mats being stepped on by everyone.Be expensive and know your worth.
Just imagine being told ‘I love You’ in the halal way.It is very beautiful,isn’t it?
Falling in love before marriage is not at all wrong but what we do with that love is what matters.we obviously cannot control our hearts but when u realize you are in love and cannot control your feelings then marriage becomes compulsory for you.
To wind up,read about the greatest love story of all of prophet Muhammad and Khadija bint Khuwailid,only then will you be able to understand the meaning of true love.One of my favorite singers, native deen says in one of his nasheeds,”we look for stories of love in places dark and cold, when we have a guiding light for the whole world to behold.”Meaning the love story of our beloved prophet and his wife Khadija binty Khuwailid.